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"Man dwells apart, though not alone, He walks among his peers unread; The best of thoughts which he hath known For lack of listeners are not said."~Jean Ingelow

"The poet doesn't invent. He listens."~Jean Cocteau

"One of the best ways to persuade others is by listening to them."~Dean Rusk

Two rules for better communication: 1) Listen more; and 2) Say "I."

Unscramble "Listen" to find "Silent."

What most people need is a good listening to.

Stop, Look, and Listen--It saves lives.

"Silence is one of the hardest things to refute."~Josh Billings

"Never pass up a chance to keep your mouth shut."~Anonymous

"Remember that in giving any reason at all for refusing, you lay some foundation for a future request."~Arthur Helps

"That man's silence is wonderful to listen to."~Thomas Hardy

"Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence."~Robert Frost

"Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery."~Tom Peters?

“To hear, one must be silent”~Ursula LeGuin

"Learn to pause ... or nothing worthwhile will catch up to you."~Doug King

''One of the greatest gifts you give to another is your undivided attention.''~Kate Nasser

"We ought to learn from the kine [cows] one thing: ruminating."~Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche

"Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk."~Doug Larson

"Communication is depositing a part of yourself in another person."~Anonymous

"It is as important to cultivate your silence power as it is your word power."~William James

"Conversation would be vastly improved by the constant use of four simple words: I do not know."~Andre Maurois

"To listen well is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well."~John Marshall

"Know how to listen, and you will profit even from those who talk badly."~Plutarch.

"Deep listening is miraculous for both listener and speaker."~Sue Patton Thoele

"Listen to your life. All moments are key moments."~Frederick Buechner

"We have two ears and one mouth that we may listen the more and talk the less."~Greek proverb

"A fool who can keep silent is counted among the wise."~Yiddish proverb

"My son, keep well thy tongue, and keep thy friend."~Chaucer

"The voice is a second face."~Gerard Bauer

"Give us grace to listen well."~John Keble

"A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well intentioned words."~Rachel Naomi Reme

"One of the best ways to persuade others is with your ears--by listening to them."~Dean Rusk

"Keep quiet and people will think you a pholosopher."~Latin proverb

"Speech is silver, silence is golden."~French proverb

"Blessed is the man who, having nothing to say, abstains from giving us wordy evidence of the fact."~George Eliot

"The nearer you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and courtesy become."~Oliver Wendell Holmes

"It was government by discussion that broke the bond of ages and set free the originality of mankind."~Walter Bagehot

Last Updated (Saturday, 13 August 2011 10:27)

 

Here's my checklist of good tweeting:

Make your tweets short, all of them. When I'm looking for something to RT I don't choose long ones because I want to add a bit plus my name, and I don't want to take time to try to abbreviate the material, not much at least.

Make your tweets complete. A response to someone else's tweet, if not actually copying and pasting the original tweet, should tell what the response is about. You're talking to the whole world, not just that person, so include context. Make it a stand-alone gem. (BTW, I think the next Shakespeare will write each classic in 140 characters!!! Smile.)

Make your tweets positive. The world is hurting for positive. The world responds to positive. It's not insincere or impractical to put an upbeat notice on your profile. True, you don't know the person you're affirming and you might affirm a evil person somewhere along the way. I guess that's the risk I'm wiling to take in order to inject some hope into the world. Respond with a "you can do it" rather than an "ain't it awful" feel.

Tweet to the trends if possible. Seldom can I really use this, but it's cool when I can. I don't much like using hashtags (#) but I do like using the trending words. Hashtags is overused and abused, in my opinion, but I believe you're noticed more when you speak to the trending topics.

Always thank someone who RTs you, always. Thank or RT them from the "Replies" (@xxxx) page and you'll get the magic banner that "your status has been updated."

Whatever your tweet, start it with a space. That's right, press the space bar ahead of any typing, before pressing "Tweet." If you don't, someone will RT you and forget to put that space there, and you will never know they did it. Neither will the analyzing/crediting sources, so no one will ever know you got RTd. Your replies page picks up only those that give your name correctly (space)@xxxxxx(space). You can help ensure that it will be done correctly.

Tweet often. Tweet something at least every four hours to build presence and followers. Tweet every seven minutes for a marketing blitz. Somewhere I read that the life of a tweet is seven minutes, so more often than that is not really necessary.

Vary the nature of your tweets. Let there be something remaining on your profile page to interest each of a wide variety of retweeters.

Last Updated (Tuesday, 30 August 2011 23:08)